Road to Surgery

We shall see these hospital halls for a bit more while.

My dad Meneleo Albano is having his bypass surgery on the 25th of May and we are storming the heavens for the Lord to show His power, might, and healing grace over my dad’s life.

He has started his pre-operation work up today with a Carotid Venous Scan. He has been given a Spirometer too to exercise and practice his breathing. Oral medicines and an injectable blood thinner are continually being administered to him.

Praise God that he did not have any chest pains today! He has also improved a lot in terms of appetite in eating. His vitals are good so far.

So yes, prayers do miracles. We thank you for storming the heavens with us. Please continue to pray.

Even if these hospital walls will be our sight for some time, I trust that our Lord above is watching over us and guiding us every step of the way.


For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”

Matthew 18:20

♥️ Love to all,
Leah and family

Bypass

He was asleep. His sound of breathing emanated in the hospital room. I gazed at him for a few minutes. Then I found a tear in my eye.

My lesson on “parenting the parent” officially begins now. My dad just had his angiogram yesterday and results show he needs to undergo bypass surgery soonest possible time.

Kindly keep him in your prayers if you happen to know my dad personally. He is a very private person and shuns any attention on him. But things change. He needs all the love, care and attention right now.

We don’t know what will happen next. But trusting in the sovereignty and provision of the Lord in our dad’s life is what we are called to do at this time.

I will watch him sleep again tonight. The sound of his breathing will be music to my ears. For as long as there’s that sound, my living hope remains.

Praying all will be well.



“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

– Romans 8:28

Wonder

A few weeks back, I came across a movie in Netflix by Julia Roberts, Owen Wilson, Jacob Tremblay and Izabela Vidovic entitled Wonder.

It stroke a chord in my heart since the story revolved around how a disfigured boy copes with his everyday life. Much like how I struggled and learned to cope with my epilepsy in my younger years.

But what really got me to thinking was the relationship of Auggie and his sister Via in the movie. You see, I’ve got an older sister too. Like Via, she has witnessed first hand how I battled with the illness and how our parents have treated me in a special and different (read: overprotective) way.

What could have been in my sister’s mind all throughout those times? Was she like Via, hiding her predicaments from our parents thinking they’ve got a lot of worrying to do already with me? Was she, like Via, also longing for love and attention from our parents? Was she, like Via, the most understanding and supportive sister to me who was frail and sickly?

I never bothered to ask those questions before. But I remember back in 1997, when I was seeing a doctor for treatment, something suddenly hit me. My doctor said in a gist that I’m not the only child who needs attention. I have a sister whom I need to think about also. And my parents need to care for her too.

My sister is my best friend. I know now that she has sacrificed a lot for me. I will always remember how she left work temporarily to chaperone me to school after my surgery…how she allayed my fear of people when I was at my wit’s end…and how she became the strong one in my moments of weakness…

There is great wonder in having a sister. The relationship may not be perfect, but it lasts a lifetime.

Miracle in a Time of Lockdown

3 countries. 3 ships. 3 quarantines.

His passport was expired and he was in another country. He was set to go home in the Philippines last October 2020 and all he had was a document from his company to allow him safe transit despite his expired passport. He was among the last of the crew members that would go back to their home country after the Covid 19 pandemic hit the world.

He was given a plane ticket to the Philippines. But at the last minute in Barbados airport, he was told his document won’t hold. It was in Barbados where their ship has docked during the pandemic.

And so the hurdles began.

He was sent back and was quarantined in a hotel in Barbados.  Meanwhile, his company had to process his travel document with the Philippine Embassy in the U.S.. For one and a half month, he stayed at that hotel. He later became friends with the staff there who were so kind enough to check on him knowing that being far from family at that time was a difficult thing. That kept him sane I guess.

Nights passed and he had to make a decision. Will he wait out the travel document to be handed over to him in Barbados or will he opt to go to Miami and take his chances that he will leave U.S. from there?

He chose the latter. Thinking his chances are better there. So he had to go onboard another ship (leaving Barbados finally), endure a 14-day quarantine, transfer to another ship yet again which will transport him finally to Miami.

The days in the Miami hotel was crucial. His travel document from the Philippine Embassy was out. But the results of his PCR test weren’t. You know the travel requirements during Covid back then. You had to have those results before they let you fly out. Six hours was left before his scheduled flight and no results yet. He was emailing the doctor explaining his situation. (He was being told that they could not do anything to expedite the release of the results, since it was a Sunday.) He then reached out to their Crew Assist, hoping they could help him.

You see, what we all didn’t know was the travel document had only a month’s validity. A week of that was used up while waiting for the travel document to reach Miami from Washington. The two weeks were consumed by the quarantine protocols he had to go through. He had only about five days left for him to be able to use his travel document before it expires. What complicated things were the fact that flights then do not have regular schedules. Which means, if he won’t be able to fly out on that day, he will have to stay and wait again for another round of processing for a new travel document from the Philippine Embassy. You get the picture. Covid. Expired passport. Away from the family. Uncertainty.

He reached the point of helplessness to say the least. He stormed the heavens with prayers. And He surrendered everything to the Lord. He had accepted that he would be stuck in the U.S. again. But what he was more concerned about was how he will tell the family about the turn-out of events. We all knew back here that he was headed home.

This is where I tell you that in our deepest and lowest moment, when all else have turned against our favor, the Lord works miraculously in the background.

His email to Crew Assist proved to be important. Key officers were messaged and alerted. People moved. Circumstances changed. PCR results were expedited. It was out just in time to reach his flight finally.

He did all he could, but it was the Lord’s hand who moved everything. Looking back, God allowed things to happen and we know He has a higher purpose in all of this. We may not know it now. But this faith-stretching experience certainly strengthened him.

It is indeed true. When we are heavily burdened, it is when the Lord no longer walks with us. It is then when the Lord begins to carry us until we finally see light and joy again.

This is my husband’s story. And this is his miracle.

Back to UAE, Paalam Pinas!

 

No, it’s not me who’s leaving the country. It’s my husband who is due to work in Abu Dhabi.

Hopefully, things will turn out good for both of us despite the distance. We’ll be spending our last two days with family before he departs for UAE. Much as we would like to visit close friends, we are already pressed for time as his flight is on Saturday. Will you cover him in your prayers so that the travelling mercies of the Lord will be upon him?

Paalam muna sa iyo hon. May skype at calls naman. After a year, we’ll see each other again. Pakuha ka ng selfie dyan sa Aldar HQ building ha. May God be with you and may you find favor in your work there. ♥

A Year’s Worth of Togetherness

Last July 2014 marked the homecoming of my husband from Dubai. It has been more than a year now that we are physically together here in the Philippines. We’ve gone back to doing simple pleasures together like dining out and doing the weekly grocery. He has fixed things in the house being the handyman that he is. His presence added the joy and laughter brought about by his funny, amusing ways.

But all these and more will come to a halt momentarily. Unforeseen circumstances in his current job brought about a change in plans that he has come home for good. Reality bites! Though he intended to find new employment locally, the opportunities can be found where else but in the overseas.

So the decision has been made. For our family’s future’s sake, the sacrifice has to be faced courageously but prayerfully to be apart all over again. Perhaps, this time around, things will be a bit easier for us. If there’s any consolation, his unlimited contract allows him to come home every year. That’s something to look forward to.

May the goodness and mercy of the Lord be upon us as we embark on another challenge in our family life…God bless everyone!

Simple Pleasures

I was a complicated person when I was younger. Maybe it was because I think too much a lot. Or perhaps it was because I put meaning to everything I experience before. Somehow, growing up and being with someone I love who tempered my character changed me in many ways.

Just like a while ago. I declared today is a worry-free day for me. This happens very seldom in my life before. So, this new outlook calls for a celebration. My ever supportive and affirming husband treated me to the simple pleasure of eating out and shopping for some Christmas gifts. Eating out is actually not the treat here. It’s eating out and shopping with the one I love.

When we got home, I wrapped our gifts which gave me the simple happiness that Christmas brings. Actually, it is sharing whatever blessings we have that gives me true joy.

I married a simple man who taught me to enjoy the simple pleasures in life.

 

Transformed Me

Exactly two years ago, I decided to leave the school where I am working back then due to family and health reasons. Time passed by swiftly. I did not notice that my life has changed into another season and of another color and dimension.

That time, my husband also left for Dubai to work. I moved in back to my parents’ house for convenience and security reasons as well. I am not a person with great adjustment skills, so at the start of the changes that happened to my life, I was sleeping my way through the days that pass by. I slept more than the usual dose just to drown the loneliness I feel being apart from my husband. I was usually left alone at home and the isolation I felt seemed to be shouting at me everyday.

Then tragedy happened in 2013. My mom had a car accident. She decided to retire from her work in school. Yet another change happened to me. I suddenly had company at home. But more than that, I had someone to care for until she got on her feet again and started to walk again.

I felt that those two years transformed me in many ways. I began to be more comfortable with the idea of the rest that the Lord has promised me. I learned how to humbly serve my family and I became more tolerable with their unique personalities and idiosyncracies. I learned how to be more domesticated and I say this, with all positivity and pride. I took up blogging as a hobby and as a tool to inspire people.  I even became more vocal about my love for my husband though the blogs that I share. God has indeed a special way of using my time apart with my hubby to prune me and let me grow in the different areas in my life.

I’m picking up the pieces again. I’m in a different ball game now. I’m walking the road less travelled, so to speak. But I’m deeply enjoying the journey. I don’t know if I’ll be back with my career. But for now, I’ll savor every minute of the many surprises that life brings me.

Two years has passed. I feel as though I am entering a new season in my life again. Few months from now, my husband is coming home already. I can’t wait to be with him all over again. He will be meeting a newer, better version of me and I hope he’ll love me even more for it.

Change is good. I thank the Lord for the changes He’s brought into my life. May you also be sensitive to what the Lord has been doing in your life. God bless everyone! 🙂

1, 7, 13, 25, 40, 60, 90

No ,they’re not numbers in a mathematical progression series. These are the ages I deemed to be critical in one’s human development. These are the ages I’ve also seen right before my very eyes.

Age 1 and 7 are childhood milestones. Age 13 is indoctrination to puberty stage. Age 25 is when you relatively start a family and career. Age 40 is when you’re supposed to become more stable in life. Age 60 is the waning of your life and work capabilities. Age 90 is when you become dependent on the adult people in your life. (If you are fortunate enough to reach that ripe old age.)

The aging process stared right me in the face when I, together with my husband, lived away from my parents. I only see them once a week when we visit them. And was I surprised at how quick they’ve aged physically. They had more white hair. More wrinkles were showing. Their faculties of seeing and hearing were dwindling. Right then and there, I realized, my parents are aging.

I, too, would go through that same stage, if God wills it to be so. But how do I stay young at heart, despite me getting old? Perhaps, the best thing I’d do is for me to still engage in the things I love doing. Walk in the park with my husband. Savoring the simple joys in life. Mingling with younger friends. Reading a good, stimulating book. Having a regular haircut and manicure / pedicure / foot spa date with my salon friends who would still keep me looking pretty and awesome. 🙂  Eating healthy and having a good night’s sleep. Praying to the Lord Almighty to keep me in the pink of health.

Growing old need not be a dread. Gracefully, I can face aging as long as I know I have aged with wisdom. Not worldly wisdom, but the wisdom that only God can give.

Post in response to Daily Prompt: Young at Heart

Homecoming

Lately, I’ve been finding myself staring so long at my phone’s calendar every night before I fall asleep. It’s becoming a habit, I know. I’m waiting for the months to unfold. And I want it to unfold quickly.

As I’ve mentioned in my past post, July is a red-marked month for me because my husband is finally coming home after two years. Our Skype conversations now revolve on what our day-to-day life would be if we were together again.

Who would cook breakfast? What dinner do we prepare? When do we go to the grocery? What time would he come home from work? And the list goes on, however, boring the task may be. But boring is fine with me as long as I’m with my husband. We can make it special just by being with one another.

I know this feeling of anticipation wouldn’t go away until he’s finally with me. 🙂